The gentlebirth.org website is provided courtesy of
Ronnie Falcao, LM MS,
a homebirth midwife in Mountain View, CA
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Better pregnancy nutrition can grow a healthier baby, keep perineal tissues intact and support VBAC
In my experience, there are significant
things a pregnant woman can do to improve
the integrity of the tissues and thus help
to reduce complications. The
Better Baby Book: Use nutrition,
your environment, and your mind to create
the healthiest, smartest, autism-free baby
possible by Lana Asprey, MD, and Dave
Asprey, "To help parents gift their
children with better health and higher
intelligence for life." It's available
either on Kindle or paperback. This book was written by a couple who
know more about pregnancy nutrition than
anyone I've ever heard, met or read about.
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Blissful Birth
is my favorite program for pregnancy relaxation and birth
preparation because
they use Hemi-Sync technology along with more traditional
techniques.
Rob Woodgate's slight British accent and tenor voice are very
pleasant
and relaxing. This is the guided imagery relaxation method
that I'm
using for myself now. You can register and get a free sample
of their work.
Mind-body
therapies:
are the trial data getting stronger?
Ernst E, Pittler MH, Wider B, Boddy K.
Altern Ther Health Med. 2007 Sep-Oct;13(5):62-4.
The effectiveness of mind-body therapies is sometimes doubted.
The aim
of this article is to evaluate trends in the development of the
evidence
base for autogenic training, hypnotherapy, and relaxation therapy.
For
this purpose, a comparison of 2 series of systematic reviews was
conducted.
The first is related to the evidence base in 2000, the second to
that in
2005. Both employed virtually the same methodology and criteria
for evaluation.
The results of our comparisons show considerable changes during
the observation
period. The weight of the evidence has become stronger for several
indications,
and the direction of the evidence has been altered in a positive
sense
in several conditions. Applying the rules of evidence-based
medicine,
the following mind-body therapies are now supported by strong
evidence:
hypnotherapy for labor pain and relaxation therapy for anxiety
and insomnia,
as well as for nausea and vomiting induced by chemotherapy. It is
concluded
that an evidence-based approach for mind-body therapies is
constructive
and can generate positive results.
Certification
Training
in the Peterson Model of Holistic Childbirth Preparation,
Prenatal Counseling
and Body-Centered Hypnosis For Childbirth Professional from
Gayle Peterson,
LCSW, PhD. This is the ultimate training for birth
professionals.
I believe Gayle used to practice as a midwife?
Body-Centered
Hypnosis
for Pregnancy and Childbirth: PREGNANCY, BIRTH AND
MIDWIFERYby
Gayle Peterson, Ph.D. MSSW
There was a review of the literature, titled Hypnosis
in
Reproductive Health Care: A Review and Case Reports by David
Baram,
MD, in the journal BIRTH, Vol. 22, no 1, March 1995, pp. 37-42.
There are
also several books by Gayle
Peterson, PhD, who has her own method of body-centered
hypnosis:
Birthing Normally, An Easier Childbirth, and Pregnancy as Healing
Vols.
1 & 2 (with Lewis Mehl, MD). If they are interested in
visualizations,
Carl Jones has written several books on the use of visualization
for childbirth
preparation and labor (Mind Over Labor, and Visualizations for an
Easier
Childbirth).
Birth Resources
with Gayle
Peterson
Cascade
has
a variety of audio products, including some of the guided
visualizations
described here.
“Pregnancy Product of the year 2006” by Practical Parenting - one
of
the UK’s leading parenting magazines
You can also get her book, Effective Birth Preparation by Maggie Howell
Maggie
Howell
of Natal Hypnotherapy in the UK offers hypnosis CDs:
* Prepare to conceive
* Overcome Morning Sickness
* Pregnancy Relaxation
* Hospital Birth Preparation
* Home Birth Preparation
* VBAC preparation
* Fast Post Natal Recovery
* Relaxing Birth Music £10 (Only the
music
- no guided visualisation)
Maggie sent me a review copy of her VBAC CDs, and I was VERY,
VERY impressed
with it. I have a background in hypnotherapy and am now a
midwife,
so I'm very sensitive to all the issues of hypnosis for VBAC, and
I thought
Maggie did an excellent job. The guided relaxation is
exquisitely
sensitive to the issues of VBAC, and I would think any woman
planning a
VBAC would benefit tremendously from listening to this on a
regular basis.
Maggie's website makes it easy to order these CDs from other
countries,
so don't hesitate!
Relaxation
and Self Hypnosis MP3 for Labour from blissfulbirth.co.uk
HypBirth - a new Home
Study
Course
FREE Childbirth Hypnosis Sensation
Control MP3 download from jenniferwolfeyoga.com
Great article on Hypnosis
for Birthing from BirthLove
[Ed: birthlove.com is not available at this time.]
Pregnancy
Visualisation
CD from Vicki
Bennett in
Australia.
This is a shameless plug for the services of a friend of mine: Dan
Craft, PhD, SeizeTruth.com,
Professional
Life Coaching to help you move your life toward what you want it
to be.
His services are available by phone. I have known Dan for
about 20
years, and I have seen him make tremendous changes in moving his
life towards
what he wants it to be; I know he can help you, too. I have
a fair
amount of experience with guided visualization, affirmations and
coaching,
and I was very impressed with his Vicarious
Coaching CD, which can be mailed for just $4.95 (after
follow-through
rebate).
Hypnosis for Childbirth
-
Four- One hour video classes, with six audio hypnosis tapes by
Wendi Friesen
, a HypnoBirthing® educator
Hypnobabies - Hypnobabies Home Study Course: Eyes Open Childbirth Hypnosis from Kerry Tuschhoff
Evolution of a Childbirth Educator by Kerry Tuschhoff, HCHI
JOPPPAH 17(2), Winter, 2002, p. 123
Well worth reading if you can get your hands on it! Here's
a revised version of this article from Kerry.
She's affiliated with a Hypnobabies
e-mail group.
Hypnobabies offers additional guided CDs for nausea, VBAC, twins,
planned
cesarean.
A
Midwife's Experience with Hypnobabies Hypnobabies Blog
- "As a midwife,
my Hypnobabies births are easy on me as I am dealing with healthy
and informed
families ready for the challenges ahead – and they are a blessing
to the
families as the tools and information given to them through their
classes
help them have the best outcomes possible!!"
[NOTE - I'm concerned that this web page may violate the registered trademark of HypnoBirthing® in its use of the word Hypnobirthing.]
The Leclaire
Hypnobirthing
Method - Your baby's easy way out! - Bringing Peace to
the World
one baby at a time. CE's available for CNM's, RN's,
Childbirth
Educators, Doulas, Michelle Leclaire O'Neill Ph.D., R.N. is the
author
of Creative
Childbirth
Book and the creator of several
hypnosis audiotapes and other resources.
Imagery
Birthing
Center - They offer a home study course. (Individual
titles include,
"Bonding", "Releasing Fears", "Self Anesthesia", "Turn, Turn,
Turn" (for
breeches) and "Flow, Flow, Flow" (for milk production issues.)
CMLowe Programs
&
Resources, including hypnosis
The Mind Body Connection: Imagery for
Labor and
Birth
Hypnosis
and
Natural Childbirth - from Dr. Larry Deutsch, a family
practice doc
in Ottawa
The Natural
Childbirth
Program - This site is dedicated to the spreading of
knowledge in the
area of natural childbirth, with information on the use of
relaxation and
suggestive therapy to instil calmness throughout pregnancy and
birth, thus
allowing a truly natural birth.
HypnoSoft Internet Hypnosis
- Create a custom, talking hypnosis on the Internet. Send to any
email.
Your own topic, or choose from 32 prepared topics including:
stress, anxiety,
pain, pregnancy morning sickness, giving birth, more.
Think
Labor
Will Hurt? Hypnosis Might Help! by Abbi Perets
A Selection
of
Audio Tapes on Meditation and Healing - "Moon Over Water" is
recommended
in The
Waterbirth
Handbook
Childbirth
preparation
through hypnosis: the hypnoreflexogenous protocol.
Schauble PG, Werner WE, Rai SH, Martin A
Am J Clin Hypn 1998 Apr;40(4):273-83
"The method provides a "conditioned reflex" effect conducive to a
positive
outcome for labor and delivery by enhancing the patient's sense of
readiness
and control."
Changes
in
the Meaning of Pain with the Use of Guided Imagery [7/14/05]
Wendy Lewandowski, RN, PhD, CS; Marion Good, RN, PhD, FAAN; Claire
Burke Draucker, RN, PhD, CS
Autogenic
training
- Around 1900 Vogt developed autohypnosis. It was noticed that
patients
reported less tension. Somewhat later, around 1932, a German
,named
Johannes Scultz, developed a training which he called autogenic,
or (self-regulation)
The benefits are similar to other meditative and relaxation
techniques.
Visualization
for
a Loving Birth by Caroline Fitzgerald, C.H. (Certified
Hypnotherapist)
- a script
A Free Course
in Autogenic
Training A Practical Guide in Six Easy Steps
by Karl
Hans Welz
The Euphoria Tape - an
explanation of how it works
The five things I have found related to hypnosis and pregnancy are:
The following is a blatant plug - I have no experience with these
products,
and can't endorse them, but they might be worth a look...
From: Steve Gordon- Hypnoworks (Hpnowrks4u@aol.com)
I am a hypnotherapist, a recording artist and a hands on healer.
If
anyone has any questions on mind\body healing feel free to contact
me.
I have tapes available for insomnia, stress relief, pregnancy and
labor,
pain relief, fear of the dentist, relax while having a massage and
more.
I also make custom tapes. I offer a money back guarantee. To order
your
tape send 14.95 plus tax in Ca. to Steve Gordon 1406 Azalea Dr.
Carpinteria
Ca. 93013 or call me at (805) 684-4184. I really do wish you well.
From Williams' Obstetrics, 1929, p. 365: "Hypnotism -
From time
to time, various observers, among whom may be mentioned
Leichstein, and
Cocke, have reported instances in which labor was painlessly
conducted
under the influence of hypnotism. Rhonhof, Kirsten and
others have
reported a series of cases in which it was used with extraordinary
success.
Personally I have seen it employed successfully in a single
instance, and
consider that its field of usefulness is very limited, for the
reason that
the patient must be a susceptible subject, and one who has already
been
hypnotized on previous occasions."
What
Benefits
Might I Expect From Using Guided Imagery To Prepare For Surgery?
-
Although this site is primarily about preparing for surgery, it
gives a
lot of useful information about guided imagery and the mind-body
connection.
Some
free
guided meditations from the Meditation Garden.
Books by Claudia Lowe:
A word from Mickey Mongan, Founder of HypnoBirthing®
There is much misinformation and presupposition about using hypnosis to prepare for childbirth and how it affects the course of birthing.
Many feel that teaching a mom to use self-hypnosis is teaching her to dissociate or "escape" from her birthing by mentally bringing herself to a tropical island or some other "safe place" (What does that say about labor?) while her body endures the rigors of childbirth.
Since the emergence of HypnoBirthing® in 1989, there have been many hypnotherapists, who are not childbirth educators, who have adopted exactly that approach--to "mask pain" by distracting the mother from it. That is not the case with HypnoBirthing®.
The basic premise in HypnoBirthing® is that when a mother is totally and completely relaxed, she is able to bring her body into a limp state that allows her body and baby to do what they know how to do without "meddlesome interference." (Hippocrates)
Since it is a physiological law that healthy muscles can perform normal, physiological functions without "pain or peril," it can be inferred that healthy women, carrying healthy babies, can accomplish normal birthing without pain or peril. It happens everyday for many women who trust their bodies--with or without HypnoBirthing®. HypnoBirthing® is merely taking the message to a broader audience.
There is no physiological reason for pain in childbirth.
We teach the pregnant family to understand that when mom is relaxed, and free of the fight-flight-or-freeze response, her own Autonomic Nervous System steps in to release endorphins and enables her to bring herself into a state of well being that negates the secretion of catecholamines--those constrictor hormones that are believed to be heavily present in birthing.
HypnoBirthing® does teach dissociation, but it is dissociation from the myths and the complicated birth scenarios that healthy women must endure throughout their growing up years and through their pregnancies.
For that reason, detailed explanations of cumbersome birthing, complete with discussions of all that can go wrong is not present in HypnoBirthing® classes. Calm, confident HypnoBirthing® mothers are better able to go into their birthing bodies to birth with their babies. They talk to their babies with birth affirmations throughout their pregnancies and during labor, and they use breathing that works with the birthing muscles during the thinning and opening phase of labor and while they breathe their babies down to birth. Animal mothers are not taught birthing anatomy, or stages of labor; and, yet, they accomplish birthing easily, and in a calm and serene state. HypnoBirthing® mothers take a page from their book. The result is calm, confident, and alert mothers birthing at home, in hospitals and birthing centers in water, standing, kneeling, on birthing stools, and in any way they prefer, free of distractions that cause discomfort.
Anything that one might consider "missing" in the HypnoBirthing® curriculum is not an oversight. It is a deliberate omission. Healthy women, carrying healthy babies do not need to be exposed to anything but joyful birthing, and certainly do not need to view birth as a medical calamity waiting to happen. Birth is broken, and we don't want to perpetuate much of what has broken it and caused women to feel that they need interventions in order to be "rescued and fixed". The result is that many women experience short, comfortable labors, like those of the Hebrew women in the time of Moses, that last no longer than three hours. Even those that are longer are joyful births and they leave their birthing beds vowing to have their next birth at home or in a birthing center. The paradigm is shifting.
Mickey Mongan, Founder
HypnoBirthing® - A
Celebration
of Life
HypnoBirthing
allows
a new state of mind to be a new state of labor
WHAT IS
HYPNOBIRTHING?
by Kathryn McGlynn, CH
We have hypnobirthers here in our community. I can honestly say
that
they do not appear to be any more relaxed and controlled than the
Bradley
moms. It seems as though they may be different paths to the same
end. Both
groups seem to be more relaxed and in control that the moms who
had other
or no preparation. There are always moms who prepare using a
method and
then can't "do it" in labor. That is where it is vital to have a
good midwife
or doula attending, who can help the mother find what will work
best for
her.
I'm a midwife and a hypnotherapist. It's been my experience that
prenatal
hypnosis and Bradley do seem to allow birthing women to attain
comparable
relaxation states. However, I do find that the posthypnotic
suggestions
seem to have more positive effects.
HypnoBirthing® seems to be all the rage lately. I was
wondering
what, if any, experience you midwives have had with it and what
your thoughts
are. I was also wondering what is your favorite way of birthing
is..waterbirth,
hypnobirth, birthing chairs/stools...What seems to work the best
most often,
be of least discomfort to the Mom and so forth.
I felt the HypnoBirthing® was very limited in its scope,
politically
extremely naive and passive, and some of the physiology taught was
just
plain wrong. Again, it focuses on PAIN as the issue (avoidance
of). I much
prefer Gayle Peterson's stuff. See her webpage at www.askdrgayle
I went on to become a certified hypnotherapist after taking the
HypnoBirthing®
course (Marie Mongan's) There is also HypnoBirthing® by a
woman in
California which predates Marie's. Some women do very well with
it, just
as some women swear by the old fashioned LaMaze. Overall, hypnosis
has
great potential--but I was not impressed by the HypnoBirthing®
course,
either for birth people (who learned a little but not enough
hypnosis)
or for the hypnotherapists (who definitely didn't learn good birth
stuff)
Wow, I really appreciate your comments. I would really like to
know
the specific issues that your found. What were the "birth stuff"
issues
you had with the teachings. I am interested in taking the course
and I
would really like to know if it is not going to be much more than
a new
fangled LaMaze. It sure wouldn't be worth it to me if that is what
it is.
I don't really have a problem with helping women to avoid pain.
Not if
it doesn't entail spinal injections and drugs, I think that would
be very
nice to be able to do, but, if this turns out to be a weak set-up
like
LaMaze, where the onus of "pain-relief" becomes the birthing
mother's job
to focus and breathe the pain away with techniques that are just
overwhelmingly
known to be insufficient for most women, then I may have to
rethink this.
I am Ok with the HypnoBirthing® course being politically
passive in
its teaching. I am going to learn the techniques, I already have
my own
political position. They teach to nurses who work in L&D wards
at hospitals,
so there is very likely some adjustment for the political climate
they
have to deal with, or they would not be able to get them to
attend. I'm
wondering now about this more than ever. Please share more of what
you
experienced.
I feel the last post on HypnoBirthing® was so negative as to turn away people from something that is a truly wondrous addition to the Natural Childbirth Movement. When I looked into HypnoBirthing®, what I found was a way to utilize some amazing techniques for difficult situations and apply it to the normal birth-quite successfully I might add. The difficulty being that the birth attendants are most often the ones who 'disrupt" the mother in her ability to maintain a low level trancelike state where she allows her body to give birth without mental interference. Much like the Bradley method (I used for years with my clients) when women use the deep relaxation so effectively that as labor progresses they truly let go into the birth and relax so totally they appear to be asleep in transition or in a trance. It is not often the Bradley trained women were able to do this-but sometime they do as they "get it' that this is what is really working to let the baby come out without them interfering. Few women can relax that fully and trust that fully. HypnoBirthing® gives a women a way to get into that space and follow through with it. It is actually the "midwives" who are just as likely if not more to interfere with HypnoBirthing® as it does not fit their experience with birth-I know midwives of 25 years who would really not be able to accept HypnoBirthing®. It is because it is a totally new paradigm for birthing-it takes a whole new view of why and how babies come out. And this practice disempowers the midwife in many of the ways she used to be powerful and often the most needed. I've seen some amazing things with HypnoBirthing®.. It changed my whole view of why and how babies come out-and why they may not seem to be wanting to. In this day and age, HypnoBirthing® could play a very important part in changing maternity care-it is actually something that can be done successfully in hospitals-nothing like blocking out what is going on around you there ? huh? HypnoBirthing® has such incredible health benefits too-I will expound on them at another time.
I agree that the training is somewhat naive in the political
sense.
It is not always accurate or complete in her physiology. BUT what
I do
support is the simplicity. I do not agree that it takes a great
deal of
training in hypnotherapy to support women to use
HypnoBirthing® during
her labor. There are a very few women who may need the benefit of
the more
"involved" hypnosis methods. But as a childbirth method it is
quite acceptable
for most women. The training is quite clear that when someone is
seen struggling
with HypnoBirthing® techniques that they be referred to
someone who
can help them with what is making it difficult for them. Or that
they receive
further help. She is quite open to the fact that there are women
who will
not slip comfortably into this and will need further help. But
isn't that
true with any "birthing method." Unfortunately I think this method
can
too easily be disrupted by the "caregivers" and it is important
that more
education about HypnoBirthing® be done to educate the
caregivers, so
that they can be supportive and not undermine the mothers progress
by demanding
she "get up and walk" etc.. As for the other things lacking,
Mickey is
working hard at creating a more thorough training program for
childbirth
education.
I agree that hypnosis in birth can be very effective. I teach a form of self-hypnosis called "Imagery Birthing" and I go with the women I teach as a doula. Here is my description of a birth I attended this morning:
The mom called me around 9:30 pm to say her water had broken but that she wasn't in any hurry to get to the hospital and Dr. A had told her to stay home as long as she likes.
By 11:00 she called to ask me to come to her place... but I could tell by her voice that it was time to go up to the hospital. But I thought we still had enough leeway that I told her she was the one calling the shots and I'd come to the house. Before I could get there, though, they paged me to say forget it... the were going in.
I met them around 12:30. At 1:00 the mom was 4cm and 100% at 0 station. Handling it all very well. The nurses were of the mind set that we had a long way to go. My intuition was... "we'll have a baby around 4 am." The contractions were very strong and because of the IB... the nurses just weren't seeing it.... so they just left us alone figuring we had a long way to go.
At about 2:00 my client got a little panicky. We put on the "color anesthesia" tape and listened to the whole thing 2 times. She got very relaxed and went to sleep. For about 40 min. the only way we knew she was having a contraction is she would rock back and forth on the birth ball. She stayed asleep during those contractions. After the 40 min. was up she woke up and said "Susan, my labor has stalled." I said "No, T, you are just using the technique well." She drifted in and out of sleep and then, around 3:30 she woke up and got panicky again.
I said, at that point, "T, you are going into transition. Get in the bath tub and the water will help you open the rest of the way. She did a few contractions on the toilet... then got into a warm bath. By the second contraction in the tub she was pushing involuntarily. I let her do that about 4-5 times and then called the nurse to check her.
At about 4:00 they told her to push and called the resident. By 4:14 we had a baby. T screamed during crowning (mainly because they scared her with their rushing about)... but other than that you would never have known she was so close to having a baby!
Incredible. To be honest, I am now officially sold on the
technique.
I find that it can work depending on the mom's belief in it, her
ability
to relax, amount of practice to facilitate deep level of hypnosis
quickly,
and her choice of practitioner and setting. These women do
best in
quiet environment with headphone on and most visitors out of
the
room. Most of my Hypnobirthing clients that had
sections went
to big docs at major medical centers, lots of fear
conditioning.
It's not for all, but it is really nice when it works.
Available on CD
Now available on CD! - From one homebirth mom to another. I thought you'd like to know about an audio tape I made to help undo the negative cultural messages, build strength and trust in self, the body, the collective of women and the process of birth and mothering. If you're interested, check it out "Journeying Through Pregnancy & Birth" I'm also a midwife and the women I've worked with have told me it's been a helpful tool, gave them some "form" to re-frame their worries......something to use on a regular basis. One side for pregnancy and the other for term or post-dates to initiate/induce. WOMANWAY@aol.com or snail mail 1081 High Falls Rd. Catskill, N.Y.12414 $12.95 + $1.50 (S&H) or call 1-866-205-5004, pin #1212 with MC/VISA #
Calm Birth audio guide (cassette or CD) is for conception, pregnancy and childbirth delivery. 541-488-2563
Joyful Pregnancy, Birth and Beyond by Lina Clerke - also available from Birth International
Other audio from Birth International
I really like Great Expectations: The Joy of Pregnancy & Birthing and Rainbow Butterfly from Dr. Emmett Miller.
Let the Whole Birth Yoga Audio tape and CD guide you through a wonderfully relaxing and rejuvenating hour of yoga and meditation especially designed for pregnancy.
Parenting your Baby Before Birth CD
Magical Beginnings, Enchanted Lives (Audio CD) by Deepak Chopra, MD
Breastfeeding
Meditation and Journey
into
Childbirth Hypnosis for Empowered Birth by Sheri Menilli
from
CUTTING
EDGE
PRESS
Midwives June Whitson and Roxanne Potter have produced the
cassette
tape Waiting for a Child: Songs, Relaxation and Visualization for
Childbirth.
Created with musicians, Barry and Shelley Phillips the tape
features cello,
tabla, Celtic harp, and oboe. Copies are available at 150 Via
Venito, Corralitos,
Santa Cruz, CA 95076. $10 each plus $2.50 shippint for 1 or
2 cassettes.
The Monroe Institute
Catalog
of Hemi-Sync Tapes offers a number of audio materials for Pregnancy
and
Childbirth, including the specialized Opening the Way:
Support
for Pregnancy and Childbirth - This 8-cassette series with 14
exercises
is designed for the mother and those who are supporting her during
pregnancy
and birth.
Guided Relaxation for Pregnancy by Marcia Farmer is a good tape,
made
by a doula/CBE in FL, available from Cutting
Edge Press catalog.
PeaceWorks - A
simple,
safe and effective method for stilling the fears related to
pregnancy and
childbirth and spiritually connecting with the miracle of
creation. 1-800-382-0602
We at Light Unlimited Publishing (Jon Shore) have produced a set
of
tapes to help women through pregnancy and child birth. You can see
and
hear the tapes.
Maternal and
Fetal
Wellness Program includes a guided visualization/relaxation
"exercise".
Creative Childbirth tapes are quite good - able to recommend to
clients.
The
Leclaire Hypnobirthing Bundle for Happy Hypnomoms and Blissful
Hypnobabies
Empowerisms
...are simple, positive, empowering statements framed with
homemade art.
Get inside of the contraction - let the power of it surround you and carry you along. Allow yourself to be awed by the dynamic physical and psychological change that you're going through. If you trust your body's wisdom, then permit the contractions themselves to be your guide, dictating your actions, and let the breathing patterns and your behavior be your acknowledgment of the changing power levels within each contraction.
One of the main reasons for preparing thoroughly for birth is to enjoy the experience instead of fearing it and to be able to utilize the body's full potential instead of numbing it with drugs. But birth is not an endurance contest, and there are times when medication is wise and/or humane. The problem with relying routinely on drugs is that none are entirely free of potential drawbacks for either the mother or the baby and often both.
The downhill side of a contraction can be pleasurable if you'll
let
it! Try to be aware of the contraction as it passes over the
peak,
welcome it, and then let yourself melt into the spreading
relaxation.
The Pocket Midwife -
Affirmations
and thoughts for healthy pregnancy and normal birthing
Visualizations
by Gloria Lemay - terrific! [The BirthLove site has a small
subscription
fee - well worth the price!]
[Ed: birthlove.com is not available at this time.]
A Doula's Intentions for a Birth
Pregnancy
and
Labor Meditation
Russian water pioneer Igor Charkovsky suggests this daily
meditation:
Picture the baby developing inside your body bathed in a golden,
protective,
celestial light. During labor, visualize your body opening easily
and smoothly,
like the petals of a flower.
For those of you who remember, I was putting together a list of positive affirmations for labor to put on a poster (and/or handout) to show in my classes. Below is my completed work....thanks to Nancy, Debbie and Elena for their contributions, some have been combined with others and some edited to suit my purposes.
I hope it is something that may inspire you and/or your classes as well.
I CAN DO IT
by Patricia Blomme
Today is the day I have been waiting so patiently for. Within me I can feel the stirrings I have wondered about since the first realization of what was to come. They come from deep within me. I feel joy! Today my body will fulfill the purpose for which it has been made. Today I will show my strength, my courage, my love for my child. I can feel the strength in my body, a wonderful strength that is meant for just this purpose.
I can feel my body opening up. Opening up like the petals of a spring tulip on a cool morning. My body is beginning a labor of love. I accept all that comes to pass with the birth of my child. I know that it will require much from me, much that through love I am willing to give.
My body is strong. My body has hundreds of thousands of years of history in it that will allow me to birth my child with joy and ease. I will not feel pain.
I will feel the widening of my child's birth passage. I will surrender to the opening of my body. My body knows what to do, I must let it be. I will not let my mind interfere. My mind stays steadily focused on the wonderful expression of love that I am feeling as I birth my child. My long awaited child I will give my body all the time it needs to work. I will not track time other than to gaze at the sun or the stars.
I know I must give in to the emotions of birth. I must remain
open.
As the waves come I will triumph over them, one by one, all the
while surrendering
to them. I am surrounded by love and trust, and that is what
protects me.
Today my body is opening and releasing my child to me. Today is
the day
that I will cherish forever.
Woman:
I am a strong and capable woman.
I am creating a totally positive and new birth experience.
My pelvis is releasing and opening (as have those of countless
women
before me).
I am accepting my labor and believe that it is the right labor for
me, and for my baby.
I now feel the love that others have for me during the birth.
I am treating my mate lovingly during the birth.
I have a "success consciousness."
I have a beautiful body. My body is my friend.
I now see my last birth as a learning experience, from which I am
growing
and changing.
I embrace the concept of healthy pain.
I am welcoming my contractions.
I have enough love to go around.
There is always enough love for me.
I am strong, confident, assured, and assertive and still feminine
I am helping my baby feel safe so that she can be born.
Man:
I am taking care of myself during this pregnancy.
I see my wife as a strong and capable woman, and this does not
threaten
me.
I am supporting her during her labor, even when she is in pain.
I am expressing my love to my wife easily and frequently.
I am accepting the labor that is meant for us.
I am accepting feelings of helplessness.
I am sensitive, tender, open, and trusting.
I am feeling the love that others have for me when I need support.
Put stars by the affirmations that feel right for you. Write the
affirmations
many times during the course of a week. Say them aloud, and use
your name
in the sentences. Then use the second and third persons. Example:
"I, Susan,
am a strong and capable woman. You Susan, are a strong and
capable
woman. She, Susan, is a strong and capable woman." Add other
affirmations
that would be helpful to you personally.
A recent client made the most wonderful collages to post on her hospital walls during labor. She arranged pictures, mostly from magazines and cards and things, of women w/ babies, women breastfeeding, cute baby pictures and romantic couple pictures and interspersed them with affirmations like:
They were *so* inspiring and she had very cleverly woven messages to the staff into them, in a very non-threatening way. Every staff person who entered was drawn to read them and you could feel their whole attitude change as they read her most inner thoughts and hopes and dreams.
The nurse told me afterwards it was *the most* beautiful birth she'd been at in 10 years of working here.
The idea is from a book - Creating A Joyful Birth Experience,
written by Lucia Capacchione and Sandra Bardsley. I know I won't
every
forget these collages and I'm thinking that the effect on the
staff was
so profound that that alone may be a reason to make them! We joked
about
her having 10 kids and completely wallpapering the room w/ them:)
Positive Affirmations - - Welcoming the Baby with Words by Patti Treubert
Affirmations can have tremendous power to act as a positive force for a pregnant woman or a woman in labor. They have been used successfully for many years. I have listed some of my favorites here. but you can help your clients develop their own.
When developing an affirmation there are some general rules to
follow.
They are:
• Always use the present tense.
• Use only positive words in the affirmation.
• Use the first person (I. me or 'clients own name).
• The affirmation should create a strong picture. successful in
what
is desired right now.
• Keep the affirmation short and simple.
• Find out if the woman has a religious or spiritual faith so this
can be used to enhance the process.
Some of my favorites are:
• My body knows how to give birth and I will let it.
• My baby and I are working together.
• I am strong and I can let my contractions be strong.
• I am able to labor smoothly.
• I am and will be a great parent to my child.
• I feel my cervix opening.
• My baby feels my calmness and shares it with me.
• My baby will be horn easily at the right time.
• The baby and I are rested and ready for the work we will do.
• I accept my labor.
• I am proud of my body.
• I feel the love and support of those who are helping me.
Once an affirmation is developed, it is important to have the
woman
repeat them several times each day when she is relaxing or
meditating.
They can be placed on cards and hung in the area where the woman
will labor
and give birth.
In her book TRANSFORMATION THROUGH BIRTH, Claudia Panuthos asserts that women can replay their mothers' birth patterns.
I always ask clients what their mothers' experience of birth was
like.
It gives me an idea of what the client learned about birth from
her mother
and creates an opportunity to explore any concerns the client
might have
about her impending labor relative to what her mother experienced.
I had the opportunity to attend a lecture by Claudia. She had one of the most fascinating interactive sessions I have ever attended. She ahd all participants (those that wished to) close their eyes. She had us all imagine we were pregnant (any men present could take part - but they really had to imagine). Then she had us imagine ourselves in an environment where we we felt the most safe - this could be anywhere, even a secluded island. Next we were invited to bring with us anyone (dead or alive) who made us feel secure or empowered. Once we were in this place, we were asked to release all negativity surrounding birth that we have been carrying around with us for centuries. Once our minds were clear, we were to allow ourselves to birth our babies, envisioning our babies moving through our uterus as it contracted, through our cervix, our vagina and out into the world.
WOW - what an experience. If any of my moms had any fears about
birth,
or their moms, sisters, aunts, etc. had negative experiences I
asked them
to try this. For those that did, when they went into labor, this
was the
experience they brought with them - a powerful birth where they
felt safe
and surrounded by those that loved and supported them.
Dear God,
What would You have me do today?
I am listening in the silence of meditation.
How can I help the world?
I accept the inheritance You have offered me.
I accept the tasks that are mine to do.
Work through me that all might be filled with love and joy.
Now is the time for love and I am willing.
Thank You.
Amen
--Ric Beattie
These aren't necessarily specific to labor, but these
descriptions of
the Australian
Bush
Flower Essences comes with a couple of wonderful
affirmations for each
essence. What a great idea!
This was from Susan Lark, MD, after the New Orleans hurricane disaster, and I thought it was great for labor, too.
I believe that if there's any good lesson that comes from a disaster such as this, it's that we're reminded of just how interconnected we are. With that in mind, I encourage you to send messages of love, warmth, and healing to those suffering in Louisiana, Mississippi, and Alabama.
Whether it's through prayer, meditation, or some other form of spirituality, your good thoughts and well-wishes will create a powerful positive energy that will resonate throughout the world.
If you aren't sure how to begin, try one of my favorite prayers -- Circle of Light -- listed below.
Circle of Light
1. Sit upright in a chair, in a comfortable position. Allow your arms to rest gently at your sides.
2. Inhale deeply. As you breathe in, allow your stomach to relax so that the air flows into your abdomen. Visualize the lowest parts of your lungs filling up with air.
3. Imagine that the air you are breathing in is filled with peace and calm. Let a sensation of peacefulness and calm fill every cell of your body. Now, exhale slowly and deeply. As you breathe out, imagine the air being gently exhaled from the bottom of your lungs to the top. Continue to inhale and exhale, slowly and deeply.
4. Then, close your eyes and visualize in front of you a beautiful circle of light, filled with Divine Light and Love.
5. Inside this circle of light, place all of the people ravaged by the hurricane that you wish to offer healings to. You can also include, if you wish your city, your neighborhood, or even our entire planet. Ask for Divine Light and Love to heal and bless everyone and everything in your circle of light. Feel the warmth and beauty of Divine Love filling and infusing you and your loved ones with the most beautiful blessings and healing.
6. Open your eyes and slowly come out of this meditative state feeling refreshed, peaceful and renewed.
With deepest, connected compassion,
Susan M. Lark, M.D.
Hypnosis for Turning Breech Baby
Hypnosis and Hyperemesis, i.e. Morning Sickness Phyllis Klaus
reports
in Midwifery Today (Autumn 1995, #35 p 15) on her success in
treating hyperemesis
with hypnotherapy aimed at revealing the underlying psychological
conflict.
Apparently hypnosis can be used to rapidly uncover unresolved past
trauma
that had been somatized. She gives several case reports of women
whose
hyperemesis stopped after only a few sessions.
Free scripts
and
hypnotic spiral images to download from Glenn Harrold.
Hypnosis Sessions, EFT,
And
Training: Hypnotherapy, Free Articles, Classes, Courses,
Certification,
Books, Tapes and Videos On Hypnotism from hypnosiscenter.com
I think reframing what you say is one of the critical things. I
am also
waiting for some materials from some different sources. I haven't
heard
of the one book you mentioned, but I know Mind Over Labor. Gerald
Kein
has some videos that have been fun to watch. I am just working on
learning
basic types of inductions right now. I would love to hear how you
are presenting
things. I also have a tape from ACNM conventions... Also have you
found
Handbook of Hypnotic Suggestions and Metaphors by D. Corydon
Hammond? I
think it is wonderful. Also Hypnosis: The Application of Ideomotor
Techniques
by David B. Cheek.
[Response to further inquiry] I work with couples together or
separately
as they wish. Ideally initially I prefer to talk to them both
together
to get a feel of their joint situation. Then, I would work either
separately
or continue working with them together depending on what they feel
most
comfortable with.
Note: these methods require PRACTICE to be most effective. You
can try
them cold and they may help, but they really work best if you have
spent
some time using relaxation and visualization before labor.
Couldn't help but comment on the thread regarding visualization
as a
method of working with pain in labor. This REALLY worked for me! I
read
and reread "Mind Over Labor" by Jones. Now, some of it does seem
"fakey",
but I was able to use the information in the book. I found my own
way of
facing each new contraction during my five-hour second stage. I
imagined
myself in a "safe" pace, a physical place from my past (it was
actually
a large, shaded rock in the middle of a rushing stream near an old
mill,
you see, I made it very specific to my needs) between every push.
As each
contraction "wave" rose over me I would push in that special
place. Without
this visualization I would have been the same screaming wretch I
had been
during my first labor. I also did a LOT of reading in preparation
for birth
which included many evenings in the bathtub with "Spiritual
Midwifery"
by Gaskin. From this I gleaned a valuable gem that I called
"giving some".
I connected with my birth attendants, eye to eye, and gave them
some of
the pain I was feeling with each contraction. It may sound freaky,
but
it truly worked for me. Not to brag, but no pain meds until they
gave me
the duramorph for the surgery. Everyone experiences pain in a
completely
different way. I trip in my mind and I puke, and it works for me.
Imagine . ..
HOW incredible it was to be part of the process. Can you imagine
what
it would be like, if you all of a sudden became one of G-d's
trees. It's
late August, and the trees are preparing for Fall. Soon the
chemicals will
be changing so that the leaves will fall, and the tree knows just
how to
do it. Just how to prepare and take care of itself during
Winter...so that
in Spring it will send all the chemicals up its trunk so that we
can watch
the leaf buds appear, flower and become leaves in a matter of
days. Your
body is that tree. I don't know at which season you will enter
labor, but
your body will know, and it will be the right season for you. And
your
labor will last as long as it needs to. I don't know whether
you're baby
will arrive in the Fall of your labor like a leaf floating down,
or be
born into the Spring like a bud, or be like the branch standing
our against
a Winter snow. Perhaps it will arrive on its own green leaf...it
will be
your birth...spend more time talking to your friends about what
animal
births they have seen. What does a cow do...a cat..a dog..a
giraffe. You
are on your way.
I got through the contractions by focusing on my cat and
repeating his
name over and over again until the pain subsided.
With each contraction: Here comes another one. Soft on the
inside/strong
on the outside. Feel how strong the baby is, opening up the
cervix.
My favorite place during labor was in my rocking chair. I would
sit
with my eyes closed and when a contraction came, my partner would
read
a passage from our Bradley Childbirth workbook (Master Exercise 1
on page
94) about letting the uterus float out and away from me, on its
own, flexing
to open a passage for the baby. His voice was so soothing and
reassuring
it helped me relax my body and stay out of the way of the uterus
doings
its work. It also helped me not get caught up in fear of pain. As
long
as I could feel the contraction beginning I could manage to
concentrate,
relax, and stay out of the way. I was actually very concentrated
and my
partner and I were managing well with no problem when the midwife
arrived.
I would sip "Recharge" until a contraction began again, close my
eyes,
concentrate and relax listening to My partner's voice, work to
stay concentrated
and relaxed, and then rest. My partner was diligently writing down
the
beginning, length and strength of each contraction, until I
finally had
to tell him (not very nicely :-) to stop writing the info down and
just
read to me. Really all the midwife had to do was monitor our
"vital signs".
Remember, that feeling pain is not the same as suffering.
You can be distracted from it.
Using hypnosis for the birth of my fourth baby was an amazing and worthwhile experience. For the first time I felt in control. It is important to practice self hypnosis if you are to use it for delivery. It is also essential to be able to use hypnosis during periods of distraction and to be able to come and go into the state despite interruption from people around. Ensure that medical personnel are happy and supportive of the process. Practice should also include developing the ability to achieve moderate degrees of pain relief in addition to the ability to relax quickly,
One book I read in the 1960's was called Childbirth without Fear
by
Erna Wright this was very helpful and instrumental in helping me
to learn
a form of self hypnosis.
One woman's description of her own anesthesia distract myself
from the
sensations. I tried to "move into them" and really experience each
sensation
fully. As each contraction began, I would tell my husband, and he
would
read a passage about letting the uterus float. I focused on the
"softer"
sensations and felt them grow stronger and stronger. I also tried
to relax
and remember that my cervix was opening and softening. I stayed
extremely
concentrated between and during contractions. I don't think I
opened my
eyes for hours and hours, or said anything to anyone except "Read
Carroll".
I "almost" enjoyed it.
I talked to one woman who said that whenever she had a really
painful
contraction she saw it as her hands inside of her helping to push
the baby
down and out.
While I was in labor I remembering this "white light" which was
actually
the ceiling light above the bed. I tried to imagine that it was
the sun
and that the heat would warm and relax my body. (I tried to
pretend that
I was on the beach sunbathing and relaxed). [It seemed to work.]
AFFIRMATIONS How can we make birth more positive, and not focus
on the
negative? I constantly am doing this in my practice, helping women
believe
in themselves. We just need to keep talking, and focusing on the
positive.
I do that, and the other seems to fall into place. Those that make
the
growth during the pregnancy, and embrace the positivity about
themselves,
usually do well. There are others, however, who don't change much,
and
give in...and we just do the best we can. We tell our clients
"It's there
if you need it, but let's try to work hard to avoid it" They feel
comforted
that we will help them get an epidural if they really need it, but
also
do what we can to help them avoid one.
From: C-upi@clari.net (UPI / LIDIA WASOWICZ, UPI Science Writer) Organization: Copyright 1997 by United Press International Date: Tue, 12 Aug 1997 0:50:53 PDTHYPNOTIZING LABOR PAIN AWAY: A 40-year-old Oakland, Calif., woman was in the news recently for giving birth in an unconventional manner -- under hypnosis. Baby and mother are doing fine following the drug-free birth. Instead of an anesthetic, the mom got gentle suggestions from a hypnotherapist at Alta Bates Medical Center in Berkeley, Calif. At least a handful of ``hypnotic births'' occur every year in the San Francisco Bay Area. It's basically a natural birth process -- no drugs -- with the hypnotherapist acting as labor coach. Hypnotherapists claim there may be medical benefits for mom and baby. Gayle Peterson, author of ``Birthing Normally,'' says, ``The idea is to eliminate high-anxiety states throughout the pregnancy, which affect flows of oxygen and nutrients to the child.'' Alta Bates obstetrician Dr. Kris Yogam says, ``This isn't for everybody, but those who want to have no intervention will benefit from something like this.''
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